The Life Design Studio

Quietening the Chatter of the mind | Part I : Preparation

Have you heard this expression before : “the chatter of the mind”?

What it refers to is the constant thought processes that we are running every day of our lives.

Because we cannot get into another’s mind, we have no idea if our chattering mind is normal or healthy.  It’s just the way we are; it’s what we are used to and, anyway, why would we want to quieten it?

We have many thousands of thoughts each day and much of the time we are not even aware of the thoughts we are thinking.  Can you remember 60 thousand thoughts from yesterday or the several thousand you had in the last couple of hours? ...

How to Handle a Woman : Part IV of Tony's blog on creating better relationships

How to handle a woman?

Richard Burton (of all people!) advised us in Camelot :

"How to handle a woman?
There's a way," said the wise old man,
…………………Mark me well, I will tell you, sir:
The way to handle a woman
Is to love her...simply love her...
Merely love her...love her...love her."

If only it were that simple hey fella’s?

You love her to bits, you tell her you love her every single day.  Then one day out of the blue she declares ‘you say you love me but how do I know you aren’t just saying that’