Have you ever heard yourself saying anything like this? – I have!
“They asked me to write a blog but I don’t think I can, I haven’t got the time to prepare for it you see … I’m far too busy.
"I will find the time if I can of course but ... I am a perfectionist you see; to get it right will take far too much of my time. I know that having to have things just right is getting in my way and it’s not that I don’t want to change I have tried everything but it’s just the way I am.
"I am too old to change now. I suppose I could try, but deep down I know I haven’t got the will power. I’ve always been that way, never could get down to things properly at school with all that Who Ha going on between Mum and Dad at home, I couldn’t cope then so I can’t expect to now.
"I’ll just have to wing it – if it’s not brilliant I am sure everyone will understand – in the circumstances.”
Excuses Excuses - What Are Excuses About?
We use reasons like these all the time to explain why we’re not making the changes in our lives that we need to. They sound valid enough - we’re all pressed for time and money, and there’s a limit to what we can do surely? But all too often they are simply excuses, a way of absolving ourselves of taking action.
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